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My Best Friend

Photo of DJ Standley, his mother, and Autism Assistance dog Nitro 2007Close your eyes and imagine your best friend. Now, imagine your best friend has four legs, a long tongue, and a wagging tail. My friend is like that. His name is Nitro and he helps me with a lot of things.

Nitro helps me calm down when I am angry. He knows two good ways to help me. the first is to nuzzle me with his nose. Nuzzle is when I put my hands in a circle and then he puts his nose in it. The second way is to tell him "lap". When Nitro does a "lap" he puts his head on my leg or lap and I calm down. nitro really helps me calm down.

Nitro cheers me up when I am sad. He helps me cheer up by playing with me. We usually play fetch. He also helps me cheer up by letting me hug him. I hug him when I am sad and crying. Nitro really knows how to cheer me up.

Nitro is my best friend. He loves me no matter what I do or say. He sleeps with me and this makes me happy. I also talk to him because he is a good listener. Talking to him makes me feel good. I love him!

I love Nitro because he helps me when I am angry. He cheers me up when I am sad. Nitro is my very best friend.

Sincerely, DJ Standley

Note: DJ wrote this speech for 4H. He won 26 out of 27 points. The evaluator took off one point for not making eye contact! Considering that is a typical autism trait for DJ, we were very proud of him!! DJ's Mom...January 2008


Photo of Rooney and SydneyThe dogs provided to the children we work with hold such a special place in the hearts of everyone associated with 4 Paws.

This picture of 4 Paws Seizure Support Dog, Rooney brings joy and tears to our eyes.

Knowing that these dogs make such an enormous impact in the lives of their partners keeps us working to provide the dogs for the children, so as Rooney watches over his young partner, Sydney, all the children who walk through our doors may also have their guardian angels to stay by their sides when they need a helping paw!


October 2007. Phillip Dixon. Message from Phillip's mother, Misty Dixon: "I'm attaching some pics from Disney- that I thought you guys would LOVE as much as I did! 1 of Lacey kissing Royalty (Belle from Beautyand the Beast) 1 of Pluto down on all 4's shaking Lacey's paw (which he did the entire time we were there LOL) and 1 of Lacey giving Donald Duck a hug - she has apparenlty grown an affection for him since Phillip's first name is Donald!!! LOL Enjoy!" More about Phillip Dixon and 4 Paws Assistant Dog Lacy.





Children's Artwork and Letters
We love it when the children send us pictures of what they want their dog to look like. Now, meeting that request can be challenging since so few of the dogs we train have stick figure legs!!! However, no child is ever disappointed once they receive that first awesome kiss. It is amazing, but it seems in their eyes, the dog they receive is exactly the one they portrayed in their pictures!

Tyler Magyar is a 10 year old boy with Asperger's Syndrome.
Tyler was matched with his very own Scooby Do who goes with him everywhere and is a friend who accepts him just as he is.

When I interviewed Tyler he told me he was from another planet, a planet where no one cared if you were different and no one said mean things.

I had tears in my eyes when we finished talking. I hope that with Scooby, Tyler will find being from our planet is not so bad after all.

Skeeter



This dog is the most amazing guy. Alex has smiled more since he came into her life then i have seen her smile in a long time. I know you are of course aware of her epilepsy but also two years ago she lost her grandmother who was her best friend to cancer. And right before her grandmother died is when the epilepsy started. So in two years she has been through a lot. Anyhow she has smiled more because of Skeeter then I have seen her smile in two years. She used to say she would never have a best friend again after losing grandma, but now she smiles and says she has a new best friend named Skeeter.

Murphy & Ann Clair




Street Certified Companion Dogs for children provide emotional support, love, friendship, and comfort to their children, who may have a wide variety of disabilities.

Pictured here is MURPHY and his young partner, ANN CLAIR, who has multiple disabilities including visual impairment and global delays.

Lucky.  Just wanted to again thank you and your staff for providing my daughter with such a wonderful companion. Lauren and Lucky have become almost inseparable. Lauren Now wants and will only sleep in her own bed with her Lucky. Lauren tells Lucky it's time to go to bed and off they both go. Lucky loves to have Lauren brush her, as much as Lauren loves to brush Lucky. Lucky follows Lauren everywhere. This wonderful friend has made life so much easier. I can now go about my house work and chores without constantly having to stop to check on Lauren or entertain her. As I can almost always hear Lauren giggling or talking to her friend. Lauren's speech has really improved. (Maybe cause she is always telling her dog to sit, lay down, come here, eat your food, go outside.)

Lucky follows and just seems to understand. Also her seizures seem to be so much fewer. She has only had that I know of for fact 5 seizures since Lucky has been with Lauren. One seizure Lucky was right there and just licked her face and hands laid down as close to Lauren as she could get and stayed till Lauren was through seizing then laid on the floor right beside Lauren and kept checking her till she woke up. As a matter of fact we are now weaning her off another one of her medications. In about 4-6 weeks she will only be on one medication. We have our fingers crossed. Lauren doesn't seem to have as much trouble with being what we call tunnel vision as much.

Her interests have expanded. Her obsessions seems to be so much less. There is more variety in what she does and plays with. She is always ready to get up in the morning so she can let her dog go out. She even seems to understand and mind more. She doesn't seem to be as tired as she was. I as her mother think this is due to someone to play with instead of playing alone.

I sometimes wonder if she wasn't depressed or maybe had some separation anxiety due to the fact her father is not in her life as well as her older siblings live in another state. She enjoys playing outside more cause her lucky goes with her. She has become more independent and more self sufficient. As in dressing her self, picking out what she wants to wear, putting on her own shoes, on the right feet, even picking up her toys, which is partly due to she doesn't want Lucky to get them.

They play fetch chase each other. Lauren giggles and runs and so her motor skills have also improved. She can now descend the stairs so much better, She runs and walks with more confidence. She and Lucky like playing as Lauren refers to it as Lucky go get it. Lauren will throw a toy down the stairs and Lucky will bring it back to her. Lauren also is throwing so much better due to playing catch with her dog. Lucky does wonderful when we go out to eat or shopping or to church.

She is so loving and accepting of my daughter. We can tell her to go check on Lauren and she does, and will lay beside her if Lauren is playing alone in her room. Puts her head in Lauren's lap and just lays there. If we ask lucky to check on Lauren if she is napping Lucky will jump up where ever Lauren is sleeping lick her face then lay down beside her till she wakes up.

Lucky has truly been what Lauren has needed to help fill some type of void in her life. We feel LUCKY to have her in our life and as part of the family.

Thanks again...Jeannie Klawuh, (mom of) Lauren Anderson


A letter from a 4 Paws Mom regarding Autism Assistance Dogs

Tyler didn't talk at that age either. In fact the 'experts' told me when he was about 4 1/2 that I should not expect to ever be verbal. At about 5 he began to speak more than one word at a time. He could run a computer at 3, but said nothing. He used the PECS boards, sign language and PC to communicate when forced to. Otherwise he much preferred his own company. Never give up on the verbal thing no matter what they tell you.

Photo of Tyler and ScoobyThe friend issue didn't really come up until about age 9 when it dawned on him that his year older brothers friends were just that...'his brother's friends'...not his. He is smart enough to know he is different and know he has no friends of his own. By age 10, this knowledge coupled with a nightmare of a special ed teacher had Tyler suicidal and thus the Psychiatrist prescribed a service dog for him. It has done the world for Tyler. He now has a BEST friend who is nonjudgmental and incessantly forgiving.

My son literally began living again for that dog. Scooby Doo has opened many new worlds for Tyler. The other kids (neighborhood/school) are quite cruel by around the age 6 with 'different' kids, but now some of those same kids are so amazed and drawn to Scooby that they often overlook a lot of Tyler's eccentric behaviors. Naturally, some kids are still beastly, but it is easier for Tyler because he is so proud to have his best friend.

When we first thought of getting a service dog, I did not know exactly what to expect either. I am not disappointed. He has helped Tyler grow in ways I could not even have guessed. Tyler feeds him, brushes him, takes him out and is overall much more responsible. He has even developed a bit of empathy which does not come easily for our children. I don't think he would have been ready for Scooby as young as 3, but the search and rescue aspect would have been a Godsend. Tyler was a wanderer as well.

If Jules wanders, I hope you are getting this training. Wandering seems to be a typical aspect of young autistic children since they have no inhibition. He hated the feeling of clothes so often he would strip and leave. We had 3 sets of locks on the doors to try to prevent him, but his gross motor skills were always way advanced and he could climb with the best of them so he did escape time to time. No matter what anyone says, you just cant watch them every second of the day and that is all it takes. Maybe if children with autism are given service dogs as young as Jules, they won't have to go through the depression and void of friends like Tyler did. Every child deserves a best friend even if it is furry and has 4 paws.




A Birthday Kiss for Hunter


Sleeping on the job? Never, just pretending!


Even the foster families benefit from 4 Paws Pups!


4 Paws 4H Puppy Raising has definite
advantages for both the puppy and the child!


Educating children on the importance of service dogs
as well as service dog etiquette is an important part of
the 4 Paws Mission.


The first meeting between dog and
child is always exciting and magical.


Even in a head hold, the 4 Paws Service Dogs stay calm.


Conquering the mountain in more ways than one!

From Sydney's Mom and Rooney, the wonder dog!

Rooney did try to alert to the last seizure but I missed his cues and just thought he was being disobedient...:(

He would not stay in his "place" or his "down" at her Physical therapy and kept trying to "go to" Sydney, (but she was not calling him) I was so embarrassed thinking that he was not minding me in front of the new therapist.

I was not embarrassed once we all caught up to his knowledge!



FUTURE POLITICIAN???? Possibly, with his 4 footed
campaign manager to lead the way! He certainly has the greeting down!


5 Time World Champion Kick-boxer, Orlando Rivera
takes a moment from his training with an Autism
Assistance Dog, Catcher, who is partnered with his
son Anthony to share a boxing glove (from his last
Boxing match) with Owen and Mobility
Assistance Dog, Chase!


Here's the story of the week for you guys. Jeremy will remember that at first Owen didn't like to touch Chase's slobber, well we've overcome that.... We were camping and Owen ate something that got all over his face so he called Chase over to lick his mouth off and said to me (and I quote) "Who needs wipes!" He thought he was so funny and Chase was pretty cute too, like he got away with something.

Every day is an adventure. Chase is the school mascot. I'll be sending a picture of him with the class soon. It's going really well there are only 12 children in the kindergarten class and 2 teachers. We brought his kennel in and he likes to lay in there during the day. We are really lucky the school has been excellent. They have a special spot for him to potty and the gym teacher invited Chase to participate in gym class because he thinks Chase needs exercise too.

We found a quick trip to Walmart is impossible since every time we turn a corner someone stops us to ask questions. But we have had no trouble everyone has been really supportive. We took Chase to a clinic visit at a hospital in Green Bay and the hospital was excellent as well. It's amazing how Owen just turns on the charm to people he smiles and tells Chase to sit or down and people just get a kick out of the dog listening to him.





Carla, pictured here with Jeremy Hebda, lives with the Hebda family and is glad that Jeremy has a service dog since Jeremy is happy to share.

When the children come to 4 Paws to meet their new, 4 footed, furry friends; many have never had a friend in their lives. Miracles occur at 4 Paws every day but not all are between child and dog. The children who attend group classes together often make their very first real human friends as well. Friendship lasting long after the training is done are started at 4 Paws and mean the world to the kids and their families!

Hailey stops to pose with 4 Paws Amazing Gracie who quickly and easily wins the hearts of all who meet her. Like our children, Gracie is disabled. They feel an instant friendship with her and know that she truly understands who they are. Gracie helps our children as they wait for their own dogs and is especially good at helping any children nervous about meeting their own service dogs prepare for that day. Gracie spends her days attending school, 4H, and church group Community Education Seminars with 4 Paws staff and 4 Paws Outreach specialist, Jager (a 108 pound Blue German Shepherd Dog). Gracie helps the children learn that being disabled doesn't mean without ability and that people with disabilities might just surprise them if given the change. Gracie encourages the kids to reach out to the children in their schools and communities, who like her, are also disabled because they will find that just like Gracie these kids are also "Way Cool".

Lawson, Jonathan, and Alex have more than just their new service dogs in common. Lawson and Jonathan have Autism and Alex has Sensory Integration issues. These boys have found that their peers are less than supportive and often cruel. When their parents came to 4 Paws and asked about a dog for their child all of them said that more than anything else their children needed a companion, someone that would love them as they are, accept them without judgment, and never look at their differences. Arriving for their dogs all found that and so much more. Friendships found between the children that attend 4 Paws Service Dog Training last a lifetime. Finally, someone that does understand them because they know just how they feel. During the training Jonathan had a seizure and as he struggled with the after effects he called first for his service dog, Lady and then for his friend Lawson who sat beside him and held his hand. For those that know these children we know that these moments are worth more than gold.

UPDATE~!!
I have really missed everyone and hope everyone is doing great!  I saw where ya'll were talking about dogs going to school and yes Cocoa is the hit of the school, grocery store, movie theatre and hospital!  Cocoa goes EVERYWHERE Lawson goes, or he simply would not go!  Cocoa just fits right in! I do agree however that there needs to be someone other than your child with the dog, in times of emergency!  They are dogs.  Now of course Cocoa is the smartest , bravest of them all. She does everything, wakes Lawson up, sings with Lawson, We swear she has learned how to change the TV channel.  They speak to each other in their own howling language and I believe Cocoa is watching and learning how to drive so the two of them can make a break for it!  It is amazing what all she can do, like Lawson says cocoa brings out all Lawson's toys, but does not put them up...hum...I guess Lawson does not play with his toys anymore.

Cocoa is great with lining up all those army men, And she ate the last piece of cake the other night and placed her plate in the sink...hum.  She also leaves the toilet seat up. My husband told me that one.  She doesn't seem to mind all the blame throwing, she's just happy!  Lawson took a bath in my big bath tub the other night and Cocoa was laying beside him, I left the room for one short minute came back and there is Lawson and Cocoa in my wonderful clean tub with bubbles all over them. Lawson and Cocoa went trick or treating, First time for Lawson.  Lawson was some medieval thing, who would have guessed and Cocoa was a prisoner.  We thought that was fitting!

Lawson thought we might have hurt her feelings, because she had been in jail in Ohio.  But he did tell everyone she was very good now and was not going to have to go back to jail!  Praise the Lord for that because we would surely loose Lawson if Cocoa had to go anywhere.  Everywhere we go they all know Cocoa! Lawson gets so much attention and loves it!  we still talk about all his army obsessions but there is a brief 5 minutes where we now talk about Cocoa!  Good luck to everyone and Blessings this Thanksgiving from the Brady's!  PS. We are opening a school down here for children with Autism, respite services and residential living!  Am I crazy or what?  
Love Bardie



Jamie, who has Retts Syndrome, takes a break during
training class with her new found friend and Retts
Syndrome Service Dog, Angelo.


Jonathan and his Autism Assistance Dog, Lady pose
with 4 Paws Training Director, Jeremy Dulebohn.

I just wanted to pass on this story. We have a baby monitor in our room so we can hear any problems overnight with our 7 year-old son Connor. He is trached & vent dependent and on all sorts of monitors and pumps at night. I had forgotten to plug the monitor in, but it has a battery inside so it was still on. Around midnight last night I woke up and checked on Connor and all was well. I went back to sleep and woke up to Connors' dog Casey's barking around 1 am. When I first woke up I couldn't figure out why Casey was barking, but then I realized that the monitor was not on anymore. I checked it and realized the battery had died and it was not plugged in. I really think Casey did not hear Connor anymore and barked to wake me up! She is truly amazing! Boy are we thankful for her!

Deb, Mom to Connor & his service dog Casey
(Note: We lost Connor in the late summer of 2007)


Noelle just can't get enough of her service dog Reagan, who graciously shares his crate time with her. Noelle has Autism and Reagan is trained to assist both her and her older brother who also has Autism.
4 Paws Service dog Rosie greets a new 4 Paws recipient.



A kiss is worth a thousand words. In this picture Noah stops to give 4 Paws Service Dog, Yogi a kiss! Hi, woof woof he says!


Hey, someone open the door already



Who knew a 4 Paws shirt could be so exciting!


Taking a Break with My Buddy!



As always, the whole family 2 and 4 footed benefit from their new service dog!


Sometimes the dogs are "For The Children" and their parents too!



Who said those group pictures were easy to take?


LET'S GO

Halloween 4 Paws Style

  

The first meeting is always special and Bronco seemed to know that Spencer was here for him! As the day wore on that was made quite clear! A visit to PetSmart is the highlight of the training class - for the dogs!


4 Paws presents the graduating class of March 2005!

GRADUATION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Waiting for the dog to come home is often hard but the end result is a miracle. In this case quite literally.


Meet Miracle!



A look at tethering at the mall

4 Paws Service Dog greets his partner, BJ in the morning
and checks on him during the night.

A budding 4 Paws Trainer?


"Down"


"Place"


"Sit"


"Good Girl"

At 4 Paws our service dogs are truly talented.

 

 

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